The day I was raped changed my life forever. That sorrowful day was July 16, 1998. It all started much earlier that day when I was walking my dog. I ran into some people from my neighborhood who I used to hang out with a lot. I played basketball, flirted with the guys there, etc... After a few hours we sat down and started to talk. They sneak out all of the time, and I never had. Eventually they asked me if I wanted to, and promised if I did they would make it so I didn't get caught. I gave in and at 11:30 I met them outside my house.
After we all met we headed to *****'s house. Not five minutes after we had been there everyone was all ready starting to drink. I'm not gonna denie that I drank too. I'm not quite sure how much I even had that night. I do know that it was too much. I remember I went to the bathroom and two of the guys came in there and told me to go upstairs when I was done, because that is where everyone else went.
As I came up the stairs, I was calling out to ****** one of my friends who was there, but she didn't answer. One of the guys called me so I walked into a bedroom, the next thing I knew someone was on top of me and ripping off my clothes. I didn't scream, I was too scared. I just laid there like a dead body throughout the whole thing. He forced me to perform oral sex on him, then he entered me with out a condom. It hurt really bad, and I was trying to get him off of me but I couldn't. He kept calling me a slut, and saying that I should have gone out with him, and since I didn't he would make it so that no one would want me.
See earlier that year, he had liked me and wouldn't accept no, when I turned him down. For weeks he kept asking me out, I am not sure how many times I said no. He was a druggie, and a drunk. After about 3 weeks into the school year, he had already been expled for drug use. One time I was out at night walking my dog, and he saw me. He threw me on the ground and started kissing me, I got away from him and screamed for him to leave me alone, and never touch me again. The last thing I heard him say was "I will get you back one day, you slut."
After he finished with me, he left the room and I just laid there in shock crying. As I was laying there this other guy started to come in the door. I jumped up, and locked the door. After a few minutes my friend who was there came in. She kept saying that she was sorry, and it was not my fault. She had tried to get in the room to stop him, but the other guy had thrown her down the stairs. We sat and talked for about an hour, I am so thankful she was there. At that point in time we rarely talked, but we used to be best friends so I trusted her. Once I got myself together we started to walk home.
That night after I was in my house, I think I cried for hours before I went to sleep. The next morning I still had a hangover, but I tried to get it together. I took a shower and tried to wash off what he had done to me. Up until that night I was a virgin, and he took that from me. The night I was raped I was still only 14. I spent most of that day crying, and sleeping.
After a few days I called my best friend and told her something awful happened. I went over to her house, and told her the whole story. She helped me than I think she even knows. She told me to tell someone, but I just couldn't.
At home I was a wreck because that bastard who raped me was spreading awful rumors about me. I felt so disgraced, and like it was my fault. At least half of my neighborhood must have heard what happened, but no one believed my side of the story. No, instead of believing me a 14 year old girl who had a 95% GPA, they believed a 17 year old drop out.
At the time I had a fantastic boyfriend who I did love deeply, but I thought that if he found out he would hate me. As much as it hurt I broke up with him about a week after it happened. I blamed myself, and I thought he would too.
Now months later, I still haven't told another soul. The only person that knows the whole entire truth is my best friend. Most of my friends still think that I am a virgin, and I just got sick of my boyfriend that is why I broke up with him. My parents just think I was asleep in my bed that night.
I know my parents could tell something was wrong with me afterwards, but I just couldn't bring myself to tell them. They never drink, and I was sure they would blame me. They tried making me go to a counselor, but I couldn't even tell her what happened. After awhile I quit seeing her too.
Maby someday I will be able to tell my parents and friends, but I just can't yet. To hear about how I tried to deal with this in the time after wards go to my journal.
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